Howdy Partner – Philippians 1:1-11

Howdy, Partner! (Philippians 1:1-11)
Small group, MBC, July 27, 2014
Did you know that I am an amazing basketball player? Well, I am. I really am! I have blazing speed up and down the court, and I have a paralyzing first step to the basket. I can dribble between my legs and around my back. I even have a killer-crossover. I should be called “the ankle breaker.” I have unlimited range on my jump shot. I can hit three-pointers that are so deep they should count as four points. All in all, my game has no weaknesses. I am an “offensive assassin.” Now after hearing all of this “trash talk,” you should ask: “What team do you play for?” If you asked me this question, I would reply: “I’m not really into organized basketball. I don’t play on any team. I just play alone in my front yard.”
Isn’t that a pathetic response? How can I possibly claim to be a superstar basketball player on par with Kobe Bryant or LeBron James and not play on a team? That is ridiculous! In order to be a great “hoopster,” I must play ball on a team and showcase my skills! Similarly, Christianity cannot be lived out by reading the Bible, listening to praise songs, and praying by yourself. Christianity is not a solo sport like fishing or golf; it is a team sport like basketball, and the local church is the team. To be on the team requires active participation and partnership in the gospel of Jesus Christ. Thus, the individual who pleases God’s heart partners with a local church. More to the point, the church that pleases God’s heart partners in the gospel. If there is no partnership, there is no church. Instead, there is merely a social club that happens to meet on Sundays. In Philippians 1:1–11,2 Paul pens a joy-filled greeting to his favorite church. In these eleven verses, Paul shares the key themes of this letter and the reasons why he is so pumped about the church at Philippi.
Philippians opens with these words: “Paul and Timothy, bond-servants [slaves] of Christ Jesus” (1:1a). Although Paul alone wrote this letter, he includes Timothy in the writing.Since Paul is going to send Timothy to them (2:19), he likely wants to elevate Timothy’s authority. Including Timothy in the intro as his right hand man would garner further credibility and respect for Timothy. Paul calls himself and Timothy “bond-servants.” Since Paul yearns for the Philippians to continue to model humility, he holds himself and Timothy up as examples. He doesn’t write, “Kiss our rings, hang pictures of us in your homes, and name your sons after us.” Paul isn’t a prima donna who has to be worshipped or a fragile hero who has to be treated with kid gloves. If anything, he seeks to run from the spotlight of being a successful evangelist, church planter, pastor, and Scripture writer. Instead, he is partial to the description “bond-servant.” Interestingly, the only other use of the term “bond-servant” in this letter is used of Jesus Christ who “emptied Himself, taking the form of a bond-servant” (2:7). Paul is saying: “Be imitators of me, just as I also am of Christ” (1 Cor 11:1). In a book of 104 verses, Jesus’ name or title occurs a whopping 51 times. It is obvious who is central in Paul’s heart, mind, and theology. Like Paul, we must see Jesus as supreme and ourselves as slaves.
Paul continues his greeting in 1:1b: “to all the saints in Christ Jesus who are in Philippi, including the overseers and deacons.”Paul includes the entire church in this greeting. He calls all the Philippians “saints” or “holy ones.”13 A “saint” is God’s name for a believer who is “in Christ Jesus.” This term is not based on what you do; it is dependent upon whose you are. You are a “saint” or a “holy one” because of your identification with Jesus Christ. It is also worth noting that Paul includes the phrase “who are in Philippi.” Here he reminds these saints that they live in two spheres at the same time: “in Christ” and “in Philippi.” It is important to note the order Paul gives here: first in Christ, second in the world. Too many times as Christians we reverse the order. Our position in Christ should drastically affect how we live in our city. If we focus only on being “in Christ” then it will be easy to fall into a pious, monastic, self-absorbed approach to spirituality. If we only concentrate on being “in Philippi” (or in Olympia) then we may easily become absorbed into our culture and be salt that loses its savor. We will become a thermometer rather than a thermostat—one who merely reflects the conditions around us rather than altering them.14 Instead, we must cooperate and remember if there is no partnership, there is no church.
Paul concludes 1:1 by acknowledging “the overseers [elders] and deacons.” Since Paul doesn’t include a greeting to elders and deacons in any of his other letters this must be significant. In light of the content of this letter, he is likely encouraging the elders and deacons to exude humility and unity in the midst of their ministry challenges. This verse clearly shows that there was a distinction between elders and deacons in the early church.15 Nevertheless, the biblical qualifications for both offices are the same, while their functions differ. Elders must be able to teach the Scriptures, and they are responsible for the overall spiritual leadership of the church. Deacons, on the other hand, are responsible for the physical and material needs of the church. This verse also reveals a plurality of elders and deacons in the church.16 The New Testament gives no support for one man running a church; it is always to be a plurality of qualified leadership. This insures a necessary system of checks and balances and also keeps one person from receiving the glory, which belongs to Christ alone. While the team of elders is responsible to lead the church, they are to do so as servant leaders. If there is no partnership, there is no church.
Paul’s greeting continues in 1:2 with familiar words: “Grace to you and peace from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.”18 “Grace” and “peace” must come from both God and Christ. “Grace” is God giving to us what we don’t deserve and can’t repay. Grace results in “peace,” which is a right relationship with God and a tranquility of soul. God’s goodness ought to compel you and me to participate in the local church. While we are thoroughly secure in our relationship with God we must remember that God is “our Father” and Christ is “the Lord.” We have been bought with a price and our bodies are no longer our own. We now are the property of Jesus Christ and are subject to His desires for our life (see 1 Cor 6:19–20). Therefore, we are accepted, but we are accountable as well.
Paul’s formal greeting is now complete (1:1–2), but his introductory thanksgiving stretches from 1:3–11. So, about now Paul is just warming up. Notice the superlative language he uses in 1:3–5: “I thank my God [in all my remembrance of you, always offering prayer with joy in my every prayer for you all], in view of your participation in the gospel from the first day until now.” Paul is thrilled with the Philippians—the man gushes over them!22 Why is he so excited about them? Look again at these three verses. Verse 3 begins, “I thank my God…” Now stop there! Verses 3b–4 is a parenthetical statement. Paul picks up his expression of gratitude in 1:5 where he thanks God for the Philippians’ “participation in the gospel.” Notice the key phrase “participation in the gospel.” This phrase is only used in Philippians. Significantly, the word “gospel” (euaggelion) appears more times per line in Philippians that any other book in the New Testament.23 Paul commends this church because of their participation with him in the gospel. If there is no partnership, there is no church. Before we consider what this “partnership” entails, let’s return to the parenthetical statement in 1:3–4.
Paul frequently remembers the church and always offers up prayers with joy.24 The prayer life that Paul enjoys puts most of us to shame. You may wish you could pray like he does. Surprisingly, it may not be as unattainable as you might think. Paul cultivates the discipline of “remembering” (1:3). He consciously and continually trains his mind to reflect on God’s people. This is a discipline, just like working out or eating healthy. But it works wonders in prayer. Several examples should suffice. When you see a little boy on a bike, instead of just thinking, “What a cute kid,” let this boy remind you to pray for the children in our church (Awana, children’s SS, Kid’s Choir, VBS) and our children’s workers. When you see a young couple in the mall or in a restaurant, don’t just think: “I wish my marriage was like theirs. I wish I was married.” Or the infamous, “I wish I wasn’t married.” Instead, pray for our Family Matters ministry. Pray for the leadership who oversees these ministries. Pray for the couples in our church to build divorce-proof marriages. When you see someone with gray hair, instead of thinking, “I hope I don’t turn gray or get old.” Instead pray for the seniors in our body who have laid the biblical foundation for this church. Pray for widows and widowers, who are lonely and in need, to experience God’s provisions. When you hear a different dialect, instead of thinking to yourself, “Hmm, that’s odd sounding,” instead pray for the persecuted church. Pray that God would strengthen these brothers and sisters as they courageously live for Christ and His gospel. When we discipline ourselves to remember we can be effective in our prayers.
I am convinced that how we pray for one another will determine how we treat one another. If we don’t pray, or at best only pray when the person we are praying for is having problems, what will be the outcome of how we view that person when we see them? We will think they always have problems, and they become a burden and not a blessing to us. However, if we are frequently praying prayers of thanksgiving and faith, we will have a positive view of other believers. Christian leaders, it is rather easy to become cynical and critical because we deal with so many problems. People come to us when their marriage is in crisis, their child has run away, or they have cancer. They secretly hope that we can solve their problems. Instead of being pessimistic and irritated, I am seeking to thank the Lord for the person’s character, spiritual gift, Christian growth, etc. To the degree that I can do this, I know I will view others the way the apostle Paul does.
Now back to the reason Paul is thankful for the Philippians. Paul is thankful for their “participation in the gospel.” The word for “participation” is a Greek term you are most likely familiar with—koinonia—a word that can be translated “fellowship.” The problem with this rendering is when most Americans hear this word they think of coffee, cookies, and conversation. Now, it’s true that drinking coffee and eating cookies has its place, but this is not true koinonia. The word koinonia originally had commercial overtones. If two men bought a boat and started a fishing business, they were said to be in koinonia—a formal business partnership. They shared a common vision and invested together to see the vision become a reality. True Christian fellowship means sharing the same vision of getting the gospel to the world—and then investing personally to make it happen. Thus, there are financial overtones in the word koinonia—as well as a call to personal sacrifice.28 When Paul thanks God for the “participation” of the Philippians, he is thanking God that from the very first day of their conversion, they rolled up their sleeves and got involved in the advance of the gospel. Embedded in this word koinonia (1:5) are three characteristics of praiseworthy churches:
1. Praiseworthy churches are hospitable. From the very first day he met them, one of them immediately made their home available as a regular meeting place. That’s probably the first thing Paul has in mind when he refers to the Philippians’ tangible partnership. Acts 16:11–13 describes how Paul first connected with these Philippians and what he’s remembering about them. While Paul was on one of his missionary journeys, he came to the city of Philippi. There were no Christians in the city. In fact, there weren’t even enough Jews in the city to have a Jewish synagogue. The best Paul could find was a small Jewish prayer meeting, composed mostly of women, which met under some trees by the river. He joined them, began to speak about Christ, and the Lord “opened the heart” of one of the ladies there (16:14). This woman, Lydia, owned her own import business and had a large house. Lydia believed the gospel, and immediately she made her house available. She begged Paul, “If you consider me to be a believer in the Lord, come and stay in my house” (Act 16:15 NET). She wouldn’t take “no” for an answer. The rest of Acts 16 describes how Paul stayed in the city for some weeks or months, including his time spent in prison due to some trumped-up charges. By the time he was let out of prison and decided to go on to the next city, Lydia’s house had become a regular meeting place for the believers.
Perhaps you’re saying, “Yea, if I had a home as large as Lydia, I would be hospitable as well. But I live in an apartment or I have a small house with no yard.” If I may be so blunt, I’m rather confident that you would not be hospitable in a larger home. He who is faithful in little will be faithful in much. In my pastoral experience, I have seen a number of families demonstrate astounding hospitality with relatively meager means. I have also seen these same families experience God’s blessing and move into a larger home where they are able to continue their partnership in the gospel. It seems that God feels that He can entrust faithful stewards with greater resources. Now, please understand, I’m not saying, “Become hospitable and God will give you a six bedroom mansion!” That’s “Christian” television…that’s not the Bible. But I will say this: “Be hospitable in obedience to God, and then don’t be surprised if He blesses you as a result.”
You and I can be hospitable if we don’t try to accomplish too much too soon. It’s easy to want to pull off what the hospitality superheroes are able to do. Yet, we must realize that such people most likely are extroverts who have the spiritual gift of hospitality. They are gifted in ways that we may not be. Thus, if we try to compare or compete with someone else, we will quickly admit defeat and throw in the white towel. But if we disregard the dreamy notion of a clean house and a six course meal and simply invite one person or one family over for dessert or popcorn, we can succeed. We shouldn’t stop there, though. Instead, we should seek to “participate in the gospel” by spiritually encouraging these individuals. That is koinonia. If there is no partnership, there is no church.
[Paul not only remembers the Philippians’ hospitality, he also remembers a second characteristic…]
2. Praiseworthy churches are courageous. The Philippians had to pay a price in their culture when they became Christians, and they paid it willingly. Philippi was a unique city that had a special government status. It was connected to the Roman emperor in ways other cities weren’t. As a result, it was important in Philippi to be politically correct, and that meant worshipping the emperor as if he were a god. Paul remembers that his Christian friends in Philippi were willing to pay the price of refusing emperor worship. He’ll say a little later in this letter: “You’re going through some of the same stuff I had to go through; you’re suffering some of the same things I did because of your Christian faith” (paraphrase). He will also compliment a couple of women in the congregation who contended with him for the gospel (4:3). Their tangible, sustained partnership is evidenced by their willingness to pay a price for their Christian faith.
It wasn’t easy to be a Christian in Philippi 2,000 years ago. It isn’t easy to be a Christian today in America…and it’s not going to get any easier. The majority of our population doesn’t believe that the Bible is the Word of God or Jesus Christ is the only way to God. We must make a decision of our will to stand strong at work, school, and in our neighborhood. As we do so, God will give us greater courage and confidence to boldly proclaim Him. This week, will you contend for the gospel? Will you choose Christ over comfort? If so, God will use you as a partner in His work in and through His church.
[The Philippians were hospitable and courageous, but the final and most important characteristic is…]
3. Praiseworthy churches are generous. The believers in Philippi gave cheerfully and sacrificially. More than once these Philippians had sent money to Paul to support him in his travels and preaching. Thus, Philippians serves partly as a thank you note for the church’s financial generosity. From the first day until the time Paul wrote this letter about ten years later, the church at Philippi was the only group that consistently gave to Paul and the work of the Lord. Nevertheless, Paul is not seeking to have his purse padded, rather he desires their reward. Paul says it best in 4:17: “Not that I seek the gift itself, but I seek for the profit which increases to your account.” Paul desired the Philippians to have a good showing at the judgment seat of Christ.
Likewise, we must recognize the importance of generous financial giving to the Lord’s work. A large part of koinonia is sharing one’s earthly resources with others for the sake of Christ.This will only happen when you first give to the Lord and then trust Him to provide for you. Remember, it is impossible to out give God because He is no man’s debtor. He will meet all of your needs; you can take that to the bank! So decide in your heart what you will give and stick to your commitment. Additionally, teach your children how to be generous. My wife and I grew up in homes where we were required to give to the Lord. We have followed our parents’ training and now require the same of our own children. They do not resent this because they have seen God’s provision and blessing time and time again. It is always exciting when we are able to say, “See how God provides! Isn’t He good?” Again, we don’t give to get; we give because we love God and want to partner with Him in the advancement of His gospel. After all, if there is no partnership, there is no church.
This leads us into the well-known promise of 1:6: “For I am confident of this very thing, that He who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus.”Although this verse has typically been understood as a salvation/sanctification verse, it is dealing with the financial faithfulness of the Philippians. The opening words “For I am” are italicized in the NASB, meaning that they are not in the Greek text. Other versions (e.g., NIV, NKJV, KJV) rightly continue the sentence of 1:5 and translate the participle “being confident of this very thing [God’s faithfulness], that He [God] who began a good work [generous financial giving] in you will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus [the rapture and judgment seat of Christ].” This interpretation is confirmed by the similar language in Phil 4 and 2 Cor 8–9.38 Thus, Phil 1:6 is a tremendous promise, which should stimulate us to greater giving. Our support of a missionary may well begin a spiritual avalanche as one impacted life touches and sets off another, and that one another, and another. Who can possibly calculate the minions of lives the Philippians have impacted over the centuries as God has kept their deposit “earning interest” through this letter! It is God’s work from beginning to end; He is simply looking for channels to begin the initial work through. The essential thing to see from this passage is Paul’s perspective on laboring together for the same cause (i.e., the gospel). The Philippians were senders; Paul and his companions were goers. One was the arrow, the other was the bow. Neither was more important than the other for they were interdependent.
Verses 7–8 supply the subjective rationale for Paul’s confidence. He writes, “For it is only right for me to feel this way about you all, because I have you in my heart [or “you have me in your heart,” NRSV], since both in my imprisonment and in the defense and confirmation of the gospel, you all are partakers[co–partners] of grace with me. For God is my witness, how I long for you all with the affection of Christ Jesus.” Paul never mailed a pink Valentine.42 He had no hearts on his boxers. But he did have strong feelings for the Philippians. The word for “long” (epipotheo) is a very strong word for desire, used of a baby longing for its mother’s milk (1 Pet 2:2) and of a thirsty deer for water (Ps 42:1). Not only do we see the intensity of Paul’s love but also the extent of it—“for you all.” The word for “affection” is splagchnon (SPLONK-non). Please humor me; I absolutely love this word. It refers to the entrails, bowels, or guts. The Greeks viewed the entrails as the seat of strong emotions.Splagchnon describes a longing of affection and compassion so intense it makes your belly ache! Paul so desperately yearns for the Philippians to know his love that he puts himself under an oath—“For God is my witness.” This love was not generated from Paul, but from Christ Himself. My heart is that I have this type of love for the body of Christ and vice versa.
Paul concludes this lengthy introduction with a powerful prayer in 1:9–11. He begins in 1:9 by praying: “And this I pray, that your love may abound still more and more in real knowledge and all discernment.” The word “love” (agape) does not have an object attached to it. However, the overall context of the letter reveals that Paul prays especially for the Philippians’ love for one another. He prays that their love may “abound still more and more” (1:9a). When Paul says “abound” (perisseuo) he doesn’t mean “bound like a deer or a gazelle”; he means “to flow over,” like a carbonated drink poured into a small glass.47 The Philippians have already demonstrated an abundant love, but now Paul prays that their love will “overflow” (NLT) even more. God desires that love be the badge of our discipleship and that it only increases as time goes on. Of course, loving other believers can be an incredibly difficult task! This is why we need a prayer like Paul’s so much. When we feel incapable of love, we need to call on the Lord and ask Him to increase our love. It can be as simple as saying, “I’m low on love, Lord, and I ask you to fill me to overflowing.” That’s a prayer God will be glad to answer.
Paul prays that the Philippians’ love may overflow in “real knowledge and all discernment” (1:9b). “Knowledge” (epignosis) speaks of clear perception in a broad, general sense; while “discernment” (aisthesis) emphasizes the particular, practical applications of this knowledge. God desires that we speak “the truth in love” (Eph 4:15). Our lives must be characterized by compassion and conviction. If we lack compassion we will have a message but no audience. If we lack conviction we will have an audience but no message.53 Like Jesus, we must be agents of “grace and truth” (John 1:14).
The purpose of the Philippians’ love is found in 1:10: “so that you may approve the things that are excellent, in order to be sincere and blameless until the day of Christ.” The word for “approve” (dokimazo) was used of assaying metals, testing for genuine money, or sifting wheat from chaff. Fundamentally it means “to approve after testing.” Thus we are being enjoined to sift through the objects or choices at hand and pour out ourselves for “the things that are excellent.” The word translated “excellent” (diaphero) can be translated “the things that really matter.” Often the choice is not between good and bad, but between good and best. That which is best is that which is of enduring value, “the things that really matter.” The goal of this abounding and perceptive love is “that you may be sincere and without offense till the day of Christ.” The word for “sincere” (eilikrinees) does not mean “honestly trying hard”; it means “pure, genuine.” The emphasis is upon a life of open integrity; one which is devoid of hypocrisy and insincerity.56 The word translated “blameless” (aproskopos) means “without causing others to stumble.” The discerning overflow of love (1:9) should lead to a life which is sincere before God and sensitive towards men (1:10). This will result in Christian maturity and honor at the judgment seat of Christ.
Paul’s prayer comes to a crescendo in 1:11 where he writes: “having been filled with the fruit of righteousness which comes through Jesus Christ, to the glory and praise of God.”58 The word “filled” (pleroo) means “filled to all fullness.” We might say “filled to the rim.” In this context Paul is referring to “fruit” being filled to the rim. When I was a child and visited my Grandma, I would often help her pick oranges. I was always impressed with her orange trees because they were filled with bright, round oranges. So much so that many of the branches on the tree seemed like they were on the verge of snapping under the weight of the fruit. Paul is seeking spiritual fruit of this caliber! This “fullness of fruit” only comes “through Jesus Christ.” It is only as we abide in Christ (John 15:4–5) and allow Christ to live His resurrected life through us (Gal 2:20) that we can be fruitful and glorify God.
Paul’s words can be encouraging, motivating, or indicting. Today, how is God is speaking to you? I am going to share four types of persons in the church. Which one are you?
Parasite. Some people come to church to get things from other people. They come to draw whatever they can from others: attention, support, sympathy, connections, money, etc. Their emphasis is upon getting, not giving. If you are a parasite, you need to become a member of a local church and begin meeting the needs of others.
Patron. Other people come to church because they like a good show (preaching, worship, kids programs). If their needs are met, they will drop some money in the offering. If you are a patron, you need to give generously or sacrificially whether your needs are met or not. You also need to start serving and not just receiving.
Pal. Still others are social animals who just enjoy friendships. They attend all the church functions. They hang out with people outside the church, but it is always at a surface level. There is no true koinonia. If you’re a pal, take your relationships to a deeper spiritual level and partner with the body in advancing the gospel.
Partner. Finally, partners are those who transform their culture by advancing the gospel.
Which one of these people are you? I pray that you are a partner. Every church needs more partners to bring about “participation in the gospel.” Remember, if there is no partnership, there is no church.

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Hope Renewed

Hope Renewed
Small group, MBC, July 13, 2014
WHAT ARE THE DIFFERENT WAYS PEOPLE RESPOND TO FAILURE?
We fail, but Jesus gives us hope. We often kick ourselves when we are down. “If I were a real Christian, I wouldn’t do that!” Peter knew something of failure – HIS BIGGEST? Denying Jesus three times. Our failures may not get THAT kind of attention (thankfully), but we need to experience that grace every time we fail.
The same grace we need for salvation is what we need to live out the Christian life. The hope we have in Jesus is grounded in grace – and that is what we need every day. It is a grace that picks us up when we fall.
DO YOU REMEMBER LEARNING TO RIDE A BIKE? Who taught you? Did you use training wheels? What did you do when you fell? How long before you tried again?
HOW IS THIS LIKE THE CHRISTIAN LIFE? We will all fall and need others to help us up. Failure is painful. The question is not IF we are going to fall, but what we will do WHEN we fall. I am thankful that I can learn from Peter.
When we consider the life and ministry of Peter, we see a common, hard-working man who by God’s grace came to know and follow Jesus. But, like us, he had some difficulties to overcome. The Holy Spirit did not give up on Peter – and He will not give up on us either.
READ John 18:15-18 and 25-27
Do you remember how Peter met Jesus?
READ John 1:35-42
Jesus identified Peter as “rock” – an appropriate name for Simon after his conversion. Later, Jesus came by the Sea of Galilee and called Peter, his brother Andrew, James and John to follow Him.
When Jesus asked who the disciples said He was, it was Peter who said – “You are the Messiah, the Son of the living God.” (Matt. 16:16). Jesus commended him and promised to build His church on that truth. Later, Peter (with James and John) witnessed Jesus’ transfiguration as He talked to Moses and Elijah. They heard a voice from Heaven – “This is My beloved Son. I take delight in Him. Listen to Him” (Matt. 17:5).
Jesus also prepared Peter and the other disciples for His death and resurrection – but I suspect that was hard to grasp. Going from a royal reception for His arrival in Jerusalem to being arrested not too long after no doubt shook up everyone in their group. This is the same Peter who even refused Jesus’ washing his feet – he did not want to accept the Servant Leadership Jesus came to demonstrate. But Jesus did tell him that he would be “sifted” by Satan and that Peter would deny Jesus three times.
Nonetheless, Jesus took Peter, James and John to the garden of Gethsemane. WHO WAS IT THAT TOOK OUT HIS KNIFE TO DEFEND JESUS? Peter, of course.
SO, HOW COULD PETER BE SO AFRAID OF BEING IDENTIFIED WITH JESUS?
We tend to see the men and women of Scripture as bigger than life. Their encounters with God, both their victories and their failures, seem so far beyond what we experience today. We might be tempted to say, “I would never fail Jesus like that” – but that is exactly what Peter said too, and he did it three times!
HOW DO WE DEAL WITH THE SHAME OF FAILING OVER AND OVER AGAIN?
Murray Warmath, former head coach of the Minnesota Golden Gophers (1954-1971), once said about his team’s pathetic win-loss record in 1958 and 1959: “If lessons are learned in defeat, our team is getting a great education.”
Do you feel like you too are getting nothing but a “good education”? Do you feel like you’re knocked down more times than you deserve, crossing the goal line fewer times than you should? We all go through stages of defeat — sometimes stages of extended defeat — but Warmath is right: this is where lessons are learned; it’s where we get the best education.
Bill Gates once said, “Success is a lousy teacher.” One of the world’s most successful men understands this principle: You learn more from your losses than you learn from your victories … that is, if you’re willing to take the time to evaluate your failures.
Ever had a bad day at work? When it happens, how do you respond? Do you shrug your shoulders and say, “Oh well; guess I wasn’t ‘on’ today.”? Do you ask, “I wonder what was wrong with those people today?” Or do you relive it moment by painful moment?
It’s the days of defeat that often teach us our most valuable lessons in preparation and dependence on the leadership of the Holy Spirit. For this reason, I am thankful for the projects or activities that went awry. In the long run, they’ve helped me be more effective and more consistent.
This principle works in every area of life, IF you’re willing to learn from your past mistakes — jobs that didn’t work out, relationships that failed, ministry projects that fell short of expectations, and on and on. We need to get in the habit of using mistakes as a foundation for a good education. Failure is a good teacher if you’re willing to pay attention to what it says.
WHAT ABOUT PETER? Did he learn from this failure? Let’s hear the rest of the story…
READ John 21:15-19
At least ten times, Jesus appeared after His death:
1. Mary Magdalene at the grave – John 20:1-18
2. Mary (Martha’s sister) at the tomb – Matthew 28
3. He appeared to Peter (no details) Luke 24:34
4. He appeared to two men on the road to Emmaus (Luke 24:13-25)
5. He appeared to the ten disciples behind closed doors (Luke24:36-39)
6. A week later, He appeared to the disciples with Thomas (John 20:26-29)
7. After that, he appeared to some disciples fishing – this is the passage we just read
8. He appeared to many at a mountain in Galilee, including the disciples – Great Commission (Matthew 28:16-20)
9. Later he appeared to his brother James (1 Corinthians 15:7)
10. Final appearance – (to all) He promised them the Holy Spirit and that they would “be witnesses in Jerusalem, in all Judea and Samaria and to the ends of the earth” (Acts 1:4-8)
DID YOU CATCH HOW MANY TIMES JESUS APPEARED TO PETER OF THE TEN? SIX.
There’s no doubt that Peter loved Jesus, but Peter may have wondered what his future with the twelve disciples would be. That may explain why Peter told some of the other disciples, “I am going fishing” (John 21:3). The night’s fishing proved fruitless, until, at daybreak, a figure on the shore told them to cast their nets on the right side of the boat. Then, when the catch was so large that they could not haul it in, John stated that it must be Jesus on the shore. In his usual fashion, Peter leapt out and went straight for Jesus.
This sets the stage for these passages and for the conversation between Jesus and Peter. The three charges to Peter from Jesus include feeding, guiding and taking care of the flock. Peter was charged to be the “rock” and provide whatever was needed to the new church.
From Peter’s experiences, we are reminded that each of us can and will fail at times. But as Peter’s life shows, Jesus is waiting to restore us.
READ Proverbs 24:16 – For though a righteous man falls seven times, he rises again, but the wicked are brought down by calamity
Experiencing failure puts you in pretty good company. There’s a long list of great people who have failed in the past.
Speaking only of financial failure (bankruptcy), do you know who this list includes? Mark Twain. Burt Reynolds. Walt Disney. Donald Trump. Milton Hershey, of Hershey Chocolate. H.J. Heinz, of Heinz Ketchup. Wayne Newton. Larry King. Mickey Rooney. Johnny Unitas. Even Johnny Unitas!
All of these experienced financial failure, but the label of failure doesn’t exactly fit them, does it? Why not? Because they got up and tried again.
The Bible says even a righteous man will fall seven times (in other words, again and again), but he gets back up.
That’s the difference. The wicked are brought down by calamity, but the righteous man gets up to try once again.
In which area of your life do you need to get up and try again?

What now?
1. Be honest – about your failures and sins. The Psalmist reminds us in Psalm 103:12 that He will toss those failures away as we confess them. If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness. (1 John 1:9)
2. Seek reconciliation – sin rarely just hurts us – go and humbly ask for forgiveness – repair any damage you have caused
3. Foster reconciliation in others – listen and pray with someone seeking forgiveness and restoration

Hope Expressed

Hope Expressed
Small group, Mobberly Baptist Church, June 29, 2014
WHO IS THE MOST THANKFUL PERSON YOU KNOW? WHY?
WHAT ARE THE OPPOSITES OF GRATITUDE? Complaining, whining, entitlement
We have been studying hope. When hope is expressed, it looks like gratitude.
We may not be ungrateful, but we can forget to BE grateful. We get used to the things we’ve been given, and we begin to take them for granted. Believers can do that in their relationship with Jesus. The longer we have been believers, the more we can get used to the blessings and benefits of knowing Jesus. Over time, we can forget what it was like not to have that hope in Him. Psalm 138 reminds us of the hope we have and pulls us into an attitude of thankfulness and gratitude to God.
READ Psalm 138:1-3
We do not know when David wrote this Psalm, but it reflects a lifetime of trust in God. God is exalted over all others and He demonstrated His protection to David in all circumstances. That is why David expressed thankfulness and trust.
A major quality of a trusting disciple is gratefulness to God for the hope we have in Him. Gratitude to God must begin with faith in Jesus and with the idea that our lives are a gift of grace –
HOW DO YOU DEFINE GRACE? (Undeserving and unearned gift from the Father’s hand)
That is the attitude David comes to God in these verses. It is also found in other places –
READ Psalm 100
READ Philippians 4:6-7
READ 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18
WHAT SPECIFICALLY WAS DAVID THANKFUL FOR? What God did, His purposes, His Word, His listening ear, His protection for those who trust Him.
In his book, Let Hope In, Pete Wilson, tells of a time he came home from work tired and stressed. He found his children had left their bicycles in the way of his putting his truck in the garage. (HOW WOULD YOU FEEL/REACT?) This irritated and upset him; but, after he had moved the bikes and was back in the truck, he felt the Lord reminding him that he was viewing his life in a way that was robbing him of the blessings he enjoyed. He realized that gratitude is a choice. (WHAT SHOULD HE HAVE BEEN THANKFUL FOR?) As we recognize, accept and practice gratitude, our entire lives will be enriched.
In 2001 Stephen Post, a medical school professor of bioethics, created a research group called the Institute for Research on Unlimited Love, dedicated to testing and measuring the effects of love, gratitude, and other positive caring emotions in human life.
Dr. Post’s research has discovered that spending 15 minutes a day focused on things you’re grateful for can have the following effects on our physical health:
1. It increases your body’s natural antibodies.
2. It increases mental capacity and reduces vulnerability to depression.
3. It creates a physiological state of “resonance”, improving your blood pressure and heart rate.
That’s gratitude for you, really. It not only lifts up the recipient, it also gives life to the one expressing it. This is why we’re told time and time again in scripture to give thanks: A thankful heart puts us in right alignment with God and one another.
Paul wrote about this:
READ Colossians 3:15-17
David spoke to God, the great I AM. We are to trust, love, obey, and serve Him alone. Sadly, we do not do this consistently. HOW CAN WE BE MORE CONSISTENT? 1 Thessalonians has a good answer – re-read it.
One interesting note from these verses – David tells us that he will sing before the heavenly beings? WHAT DO YOU THINK THAT REFERS TO? It may refer to heavenly servant beings (angels), judges and governors appointed by God as political leaders (spoken of in Exodus) or the supposed “gods” of the surrounding nations. Whatever the exact meaning, we are to not be ashamed to honor God in any environment. We are to let the powers that be know that our trust is in God – that is who we bow down to.
So – verses 1-3 thank God for His love and truth. Now, let’s thank Him that we don’t have to call attention to ourselves to get His attention:
READ Psalm 138:4-6
Even kings and other leaders will give thanks to the Lord when they hear God’s own words. When people, even those in places of leadership, hear and believe the truth revealed in God’s Word, they will respond as well.
GRATITUDE IS A VERB – Fulton J. Sheen wrote:
“An interesting phenomenon in children is that gratitude or thankfulness comes relatively late in their young lives. They almost have to be taught it; if not, they grow up thinking that the world owes them a living.”
A friend once told me that she didn’t want to force her son to say “Thank you” unless he really felt like it saying it. She said, “If I teach him to say ‘thank you’ when he doesn’t feel thankful, I’m teaching him that it’s OK to be a hypocrite.”
That’s not even close to what gratitude is. Our feelings have nothing to do with why we express it. Gratitude is not an emotion, it’s an action. The act of saying “thank you” is for the benefit of the other person. It’s about their feelings, not yours.
The same is true when it comes to saying “Thank you” to God. Thankfulness is the proper response to the goodness of God. We say “thank you” because he is good, not just because we happen to feel good at the moment.
This is why the Psalms so often refer to the “sacrifice of thanksgiving” — it’s an act of obedience, not just an emotional outburst.
David said, “I will offer to You the sacrifice of thanksgiving, and will call upon the name of the Lord.” (Psalm 116:17)
Like children, believers need to learn how to be thankful. Most of the time, when we consider all the good things God has done for us, we’ll feel thankful. Even when our feelings don’t cooperate, we need to properly express gratitude, offering God a sacrifice of thanksgiving for the kindness and mercy he has shown us.
David tells us in these verses that the Lord, even though He is exalted, takes note of us when we are humble. God delights in revealing Himself and His will to those who humbly seek Him.
READ Proverbs 15:8 “The sacrifice of the wicked is an abomination to the LORD, but the prayer of the upright is His delight.” NASB
READ 2 Chronicles 7:14
WHAT ARE THE ENEMIES OF HUMILITY AND GRATITUDE?
1. Assuming you have to live like a king to be grateful – not thanking for all
2. Thinking God will not notice you – poor, poor, pitiful me or above it all
3. Feeling entitled to what God gives you – what do people feel entitled to?
4. Forgetting that life is a gift – taking everything for granted
“Talent is God given. Be humble. Fame is man-given. Be grateful. Conceit is self-given. Be careful.”
~ John Wooden
Choosing humility is a posture of the heart toward God that wards off entitlement and other enemies of gratitude. Gratitude is our response to the hope we have in God – even to His protection:
READ Psalm 138:7-8
We can live full, meaningful lives because our hope is based on His preservation rather than our own efforts. Whether we realize it or not, we are all engaged in spiritual battle. There are spiritual forces of evil (Ephesians 6) who do battle with us daily and we would do well to fasten our armor tightly.
God (and EMS) can rescue you from danger or protect you from danger.
HAS SOMEONE PROTECTED YOU WITHOUT YOU KNOWING IT AT THE TIME? Kids
HAVE YOU BECOME AWARE OF GOD’S PROTECTION IN A CIRCUMSTANCE?
We should keep in mind that our gratitude to God is not based on how good our situation is but on how we view the situation. Gratitude should be our response to all situations.
READ 1 Thessalonians 5:18 again
What now?
1. Record it – make a daily list of why you are grateful – you can use your lesson guide to start
2. Say it – tell people why you are grateful instead of complaining, murmuring and arguing. See what difference it makes in your world.
3. Share it – find someone in your world to share the love of Jesus, even if they don’t express their gratitude toward you. Maybe that way, you will know what God feels like when we fail to do it to Him.
WHAT DOES HOPE LOOK LIKE? Gratitude